{"id":6659,"date":"2018-03-25T04:47:43","date_gmt":"2018-03-25T04:47:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/flatmate.com\/blog\/?p=6659"},"modified":"2026-04-12T00:29:38","modified_gmt":"2026-04-12T00:29:38","slug":"feelings-housemate","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/flatmate.com\/blog\/feelings-housemate\/","title":{"rendered":"Romantic Feelings for a Housemate? 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We&#8217;d bet next week&#8217;s rent on most of us being in this situation before.<\/p><div><div class=\"u-serif-font-main--large\"><div class=\"ui_qtext_expanded\"><p class=\"ui_qtext_para\">It is actually a tough one especially given we need to live under the one roof with them. We are around them most days. Being around someone that you have feelings for, or even feel love for, can be emotionally very difficult.<\/p><p class=\"ui_qtext_para\">Most people would probably advise to never sleep with a housemate. Here at <a href=\"https:\/\/flatmate.com\">flatmate.com<\/a>. we accept we are only humans, and feelings do sometimes get in the way. Firstly, don&#8217;t beat yourself up about it. We are only human. Now that we have that out of the way, let&#8217;s look at what we can actually do about it.<\/p><p><strong>Read More:\u00a0<\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/flatmate.com\/blog\/slept-with-a-flatmate\/\">WHAT TO DO WHEN YOU\u2019VE JUST HAD SEX WITH A FLATMATE<\/a><\/p><p class=\"ui_qtext_para\">If your housemate is already in a relationship you\u00a0will need to tread carefully. That\u2019s not to say that deep down inside you may be destined to be together. Ask yourself some questions.<\/p><p class=\"ui_qtext_para\">Is it just lust, or is there a deeper connection?<\/p><p class=\"ui_qtext_para\">Have you played out a potential relationship in your mind, and what would that look like?<\/p><p>[Tweet &#8220;In love with your housemate? Follow your heart, and your head, and most of all, be respectful&#8221;]<\/p><p class=\"ui_qtext_para\">We do know of people who have slept with and even been in relationships with their housemates, and in the end, the relationship may not have worked out, but they did remain friends.<\/p><p>If you do decide to approach your housemate, a good opening line could be this &#8220;I just wanted to let you know that I need to move out, as I have feelings for you, and it&#8217;s impacting how I am acting around the house. I&#8217;m sorry to dump this on you, but I wanted to be honest as you may be wondering why I have been acting strange.&#8221;<\/p><p class=\"ui_qtext_para\">There is no clear cut one size fits all solution for this. Follow your heart, and your head, and most of all, be respectful. 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